Just a few days back, I have a good conversation with a few friends at work, over a cup of tea, in the much needed afternoon tea break .. we were all of a sudden talking about the comfort of a friend in ones life.. and then jumping to what a best friend is..
For some there was no one like a best friend, as it was difficult for someone to pass the test of the level of expectations set.. for some it was someone they shared a long patch of life..
it was wonderful to even know that their were so many shades to this relationships.. there was possessiveness.. trust..belief..love.. time spent.. being there when needed the most.. lot of opinions from all the different experiences people had in life :)
I guess for me my bestfriend.. is someone with whom I can start a conversation after many years with the same zeal of interest and love from where life had parted our ways and yet as we start talkng the yrs seem to disappear.. the person has grown but the essence is not lost.. just to know that we will always have a special place in our hearts for each other.. and many new friends will come and add to the friendship list and yet I persist .. for all the yrs gone by I continue to be on the list ... thats the beauty of a best friend..
some one you can just call up in the middle of the night and share a dream.. share a sorrow ..share an achievement..or a sheer nothing feel like talking to you element .. and u know you are sharing it with the right person.. as its always taken in the right spirit...
I guess for those who havent yet found there special friend.. i am sure theres some one like that waiting for you at some corner of your life.. its never too late to find the bestest friend life can offer.. and who knows may be you already have them .. its just that its never really discovered
to my best friend.. you will always be special to me ..thanks for coming in my life and making it such a wonderful and easy ride...
P.S ... i promise to be more regular ...somehow things had got a bit busy around work and home :)
3 comments:
You nailed it gal!! Its indded a person with whom you can pick up from where you left off!! and never a function of how often you have been in touch or the geographies that you inhabit!!
PS: Chillax!!!
Yeah I agree with you. One really needs such a best friend. Its a must.
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