Well the 14th FEB being just round the corner, truely an illusion of love being in the air, is just about every place you visit...may it be shops or resturants or general hoardings around..
every place you look around Valentines day is THE EVENT.
I know that for a few people this idea is fundamentally wrong as they think, why a day to express your love as it is a continuous process.. a flowing brook which has its own course and the journey itself is the purpose ..so this day means nothing to them...
For some this day has a special meaning as it helps them express what they feel on a much grand scale, let their loved one feel special..
May be in the old days when life was not a race but a journey .. this day was not really needed. I still remember how my grand parents use to share so much of their time together, reading together, going for walkings in the evening, walking on star studded nights, no great holiday packages, no costly diamonds just sheer being together and living the moment was the beauty of their relationship and yes for them 14 feb would have been just a day as any other one as they had a lot of time to for their togetherness.
For me, I think this in todays fast world, when everyone is on a go.. there is no time to pause and smell the roses on the way, watch the rain, see the kids smile and enjoy everything thats normal and yet beautiful ..this day, if is a reason for someone to pause and just share an evening with their dear ones.. and let them know that they are special ..its worth it.
You dont need a day to let your dear ones know that they are so precious, but yet if life is like a fast pace race where you got to be moving all the while, if days like these make you pause I guess its apt.. as the purpose is served and, well, we being humans with love and emotions is proved yet again and the happiness we get seeing our loved one happy ..I guess no dollars can buy that for us ;) right ????
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